The actress had been with her husband, David*, for 11 years when she found evidence of his affair with their teenage babysitter. Yet one thing remains consistent: on Tuesday nights, my husband sleeps on the couch in the living room, and my 9-year-old daughter sleeps with me. As soon as my husband leaves the room, we have a kiss, and sometimes I’ll sneak into her bed when he’s sleeping. Nicki Ann Gilbey, 30, pleaded guilty to sexual interference for the relationship she fostered with the young girl.

The series featured a character named Ducky McCrae, a high school sophomore who just didn’t fit in with the other boys at school and preferred to hang with the girls. Martin started the series in 1985 with the novel Kristy’s Great Idea, in which everyone’s favorite tomboy, Kristy Thomas, comes up with the idea to start a babysitting club with her friends. I was a very popular babysitter when I was about 15, and often I would have kids from two or three different families at once. This is a confession of a girl who had been laughed at and ostracised by her friends in college because they believed that she was a lesbian. It wasn’t until after Hannah passed away from cancer and David and I were both living in New York that I developed a crush on him — but since I was still married to my first husband at the time, our friendship remained just that.

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M having a lesbian affair with my mother-in-law, and I am terrified my husband will find out. Gilbey would put her arm around the girl sometimes, often sleeping on the floor of her bedroom while babysitting.

My feelings for her are growing stronger and I’m sure my husband will notice the looks between us, or catch us in bed.Despite the age difference, the girl and Gilbey hung out, watching television or playing video games. A babysitter gets dumped by her boyfriend and confides in the woman that she works for that she is off men. Frankly, we love to see it, and I am still bitter that Netflix took this gem of a show away from us so soon. Men think that they want to have all of that pressure off of them, but once it’s lifted, it can be emasculating to be less successful than your wife.